Suggestions

Now seeing as I was only to post seven posts on my issue, and that this is the seventh post, I would like to welcome you to the final post of the blog. So YAY!

This blog started off being just a thing I had to do for my class. But I grew strangely attached to it. I really invested myself in learning about ageism, and all the problems that come from it. I can now see all these different day to day problems that people are faced with because of their age.

Anyway, here it is, the last entry.

How can we fix the problem?

We are all faced with choices in life. Do I give money to those in need? Do I eat the last piece of cake? Do I speak up upon seeing an issue take place?

Well, I guess the first one is entirely up to you. Just keep in mind what you would want if you needed the money.

For the cake, YES! Who doesn’t love cake? Cake is always the answer.

And that last one – Do I speak up about a social justice issue? YES. Always. There are so many people out there in our society that do not have to power to speak up for themselves. I know that being as though I am below the age of 18, I am seen as lesser than majority of the population. Speak up against injustices against people!

So my suggestions to help make our world a happier and healthier place:

  1. Speak up and take action. If somebody is struggling, help them! Give them someone to talk to, to lean on, and to support them. If you see somebody being discriminated against, speak up! Sometimes it is so embarrassing for the person. They could use a boost.
  2. Don’t be a bigot. Don’t think of yourself as superior or better than others. Everybody has flaws. Even you.
  3. Think about what you say. This seems easy but it’s the little things you say that can fuel the fire.
  4. Always remember that age does NOT(!!!!!!!!!) define a persons abilities.
Suggestions

“Anti-Ageist” Policies

Now, aside from Meryl Streep and Madonna (who continue to shock and WOW me!!!) speaking up on the issue, there are laws in place to ‘assure’ that age discrimination will not happen. I mean sure. There’s also laws against punching people but that happens too so…

So there’s policies put in place to ‘assure’ that nobody is discriminated against on the basis of race, gender, sex, religion, age, sexual orientation, language, and more.

Yet why is it that even with these laws in place, people are continually discriminated against?

Well let me help you out on this one. The Human Rights Code states in Section 5(1) that,

“Every person has a right to equal treatment with respect to employment without discrimination because of race, ancestry, place of origin, colour, ethnic origin, citizenship, creed, sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, age, record of offences, marital status, family status or disability.”

So if we then travel down to look up the definition of ‘age’ in the Code (Section 10), you will find this: ““age” means an age that is 18 years or more;”

WHAT?!?!

So if a person is under the age of 18, it’s completely legal for them to be discriminated against???????

AMAZING!

And as if that possibly wasn’t great enough for you, another wee tid-bit of information: in Section 15 of the Code, it states that, “A right under Part I to non-discrimination because of age is not infringed where an age of sixty-five years or over is a requirement, qualification or consideration for preferential treatment.”

WHAT IS THAT?!?

You can be legally discriminated against if you are younger than 18, or older than 65.

And here I was, hoping that these policies set in place would be there to help the situation. Meanwhile, I think they are only fueling the fire.

This is sick.

Bibliography:

Ageism. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.ohrc.on.ca/en/time-action-advancing-human-rights-older-ontarians/ageism

Law Document English View. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.ontario.ca/laws/statute/90h19#BK6

Madonna: Ageism is wrong. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.agediscrimination.info/News/Pages/ItemPage.aspx?Item=811&utm_content=buffer034f7&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_campaign=buffer

“Anti-Ageist” Policies

Leaders of Anti-Ageism

Let’s be honest with ourselves – ageism is not presented in the media nearly half as much as racism or sexism. Nor does it have many major leaders fighting it. Sexism has the likes of Emma Watson (#HeForShe), Obama, and many other huge names. However, when it comes down to ageism, there isn’t many to pop up.

However, those who are interested in trying to make a change, are doing amazing things. I would like to recognize them and their amazing work.

Meryl Streep is an amazing person I would like to talk about. Not only is she a great actress, and super cool in “Into the Woods”, but Meryl has funded a screenwriting lab for women over the age of 40. This being because she believes that the world can and should, “embrace the more challenging message” of ageism.

YOU GO MERYL!!!!!!

My next person is Madonna. Madonna, when talking to the Rolling Stones magazine, stated that, “Because women, generally, when they reach a certain age, have accepted that they’re not allowed to behave a certain way”. She didn’t seem to enjoy the idea that people, upon reaching a certain age were expected to think, act, and speak a certain way.

I think, like Meryl and Madonna, people should speak up more and do more to fight ageism and ageist people. It’s time to take a stand against discrimination of any kind. Let it be racism, sexism, ableism, or ageism or any other possible way to discriminate against a person.

Please, speak up and let’s make the world a good place for everyone!

Bibliography:

Madonna Compares Ageism Against Her to Racism and Homophobia. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.billboard.com/articles/news/6487469/madonna-compares-ageism-against-her-to-racism-and-homophobia

Meryl Streep attacks film industry ageism. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/celebritynews/4274528/Meryl-Streep-attacks-film-industry-ageism.html

Shah, Y. (n.d.). Meryl Streep’s Awesome Move To Fight Ageism In Hollywood. Retrieved from http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/04/22/meryl-streep-screenwriting-lab_n_7117498.html

Leaders of Anti-Ageism

Ageism in the Media

Grey? Gorgeous? Wrinkled? Wonderful?

Have you ever been watching television and seen an advertisement tell you to get “younger looking eyes”? Have you noticed the age of the people in those ads? Why is it that we have 30 – 40 year olds using creams and serums to make them appear younger? They have no lines! Also, if per chance they did, why would it matter? When did wrinkles and lines gain such bad connotation? Like I love wrinkles and lines! I think that crow’s feet in the corner of your eyes shows a life of happiness! Or little marks on you tell your story! Ugh it’s just amazing! People are so beautiful!!!!!!

Sorry, off topic.

Yet why is it that when you turn on a television, people are telling you to dye your hair to look younger? Or get hair transplants to get fuller hair! Or facial serums to make you appear younger and healthier? What is so bad about living your life and proving that you made it this far? Why is there such a bad connotation with growing old?

Or maybe we should talk about the rush kids have to grow up? I know that there was always this hype about growing up to be an adult. I was always asked as a kid what I wanted to be when I was older, why is this? Why ask a kid this? What good comes from it? You really think a four year old girl knows what she wants to do? Why not ask them about things that are important to them then. Don’t pressure kids into thinking of their future and needing to decide right then and there – that’s just cruel.

Young people want to be older, older people want to be younger. What is wrong with our society? Why must we paint a picture of a perfect age? Why can’t people just love themselves and the age they are?

You’re young? Awesome! Go to the movies with your friends! Go read books in the library. Go volunteer at a soup kitchen! Do you!

You’re an older person? That’s amazing! You rocked your life so far! Tell people about it! Live and make more memories! Go to the park! Go for a run! Read books! Go to the movies! Do you!

You’re 30? Great! You rock!

You’re a newborn baby? Fantastic! Welcome! Keep growing!

I guess the moral of the story is, people need to stop putting a label on persons of different ages. Age does not define somebody’s abilities. There is always room to keep growing and expanding.

Bibliography

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(n.d.). Retrieved from https://catherinetucci1.files.wordpress.com/2014/03/dove-grey.jpg

Ageism in the Media

The Factors of Ageism

Here’s a story. I was going out to pick my younger brother up from a school camping trip and I pulled into an empty parking spot – right in the middle of it. The lady in the car beside me shot me a look of confusion and disgust. EXCUSE ME? She then continues to have to audacity to lean out of her window and ask me to be wary when opening my car door, for I may scratch her car. Let me clarify that she was indeed parked over the line into my space. Being polite, I assured her that I would be as careful as humanly possible. She then continued to stare at me and give me the knowing look of I-am-better-than-you-and-I-need-you-to-know-it. Next, she rolled her eyes at me and give her other lady friends that look of teenagers-are-so-reckless. WOW. I must be so immature and reckless because I was the one to acknowledge you as an equal and not treat you as inferior to me!!! Now, the question is how did this lady even assume that judging me on my age would be okay?

Well, there are many theories as to how ageism came to be; fear of death (The Theoretical Basis of Ageism, n.d.), identity (Assisted Living Federation of America , 2013), succession (Assisted Living Federation of America , 2013), and consumption (Assisted Living Federation of America , 2013). However, I do not believe that anything happens merely by one sole factor. I think that for something to happen, there needs to be numerous contributing factors. Like societal values, technology, the world, popular culture. To narrow ageism’s cause down to one factor just seems like a lot of tedious work for nothing. It’s not like one person just flat out said, “I think people of different ages should be treated differently.” It didn’t happen like that.

It’s a sort of mentality that grows. It spreads like a virus. It’s passed down through the people around you. For instance, driving in the car and hearing, “Man! This old guy drives so slowly. Speed up you old coot!” or maybe something as innocent as, “Speak up so she can hear you.” Little things affect our society and it can have a very negative outcomes. To see the effects that ageism has on both the younger and the older generations, a short video was made called, “Mind the Gap” (find it here: http://www.alfa.org/alfa/Ageism.asp).

Bibliography:

Researchers Find Three Causes to Ageism. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.alfa.org/News/3113/Researchers-Find-Three-Causes-to-Ageism

Stereotypes in Late Adulthood: Factors of Ageism & Counter-Tactics. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://study.com/academy/lesson/stereotypes-in-late-adulthood.html

The Issue of Ageism in America Today. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.disabled-world.com/editorials/ageism.php

The Theoretical Basis of Ageism. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www2.webster.edu/~woolflm/ageismtheory.html

The Factors of Ageism

The History of Ageism

Please, don’t think of me as some raged teenager, although I do passionately believe in equal rights for everyone and that nobody should be discriminated against, I will try to keep my cool.

Now let’s jump into things. A book by Todd D. Nelson, Ageism: Stereotyping and Prejudice Against Older Persons, states in its first chapter that;

“In first encounters, age is one of the earliest characteristics we notice about other people (Fiske 1998; Kite, Deaux, and Miele 1991). Conscious or not, noticing age drives our interactions with others. Age seems to answer: How should I address them? What are their political views? What do they know about popular culture? Will they be competent? Socially aware? How should I talk? How loudly?”

Think about this. It shouldn’t be too hard. Put yourself in their shoes. What would you do, think, or say in response to someone talking to you as if you are inferior to them? Or if they don’t expect you have the same knowledge as them? Must be hard, right? To think that someone would put you down for being a capable adult. How atrocious! How could one have the audacity to undermine you and tell you, you are incapable? OH THE HUMANITY!

Why must we automatically assume that just because someone is of a younger or older age that they are incapable of holding the same level of knowledge?

Welcome to the Ageism where adolescents and older persons have been targeted for years on end!

Retirement was first put in to place in the 1840’s (Lakehead University, n.d.). However, it’s not the retirement we know today. It roughly started around the time that machinery was being introduced in factories. Lakehead University states that;

“What happened in many firms mirrored the model used at the Ford Motor Company. With the development of assembly lines, Ford developed a production model that emphasized repetition and speed rather than craft and skill. This resulted in a deskilled workforce that replaced earlier generations of skilled tradespersons.” (Lakehead University, n.d.)

Well done Ford. Forcing people to retire because the machinery can get it done quicker. Well sure, upon thinking about it, it makes perfect sense. It’s efficient. However, this was done without providing benefits or pension for all the people that “retired”.

It was in the 1960’s that Robert Neil Butler first used the word “ageism”(Legacy of Dr. Robert N. Butler, 2015). Robert was one of the first major people to speak up about ageism. He studied gerontology, meaning the “study of old persons”, and dedicated his entire life to bettering it(Legacy of Dr. Robert N. Butler, 2015). An entire life dedicated to bettering a situation that shouldn’t even exist. But it does exist, doesn’t it? Why? The young people you discriminate against, they become adults and then by that time, you’re “old” and the elderly that you also discriminate against, you will end up at that age too. So be kind to people! Walk a mile in someone else’s shoes and try to understand things from their point of view. Let’s change history and stop calling people incapable as soon as they hit 60. Let’s let teenagers speak their mind because let’s face it, we are extremely in touch with the media, so we understand what’s going on in it.

Treat people with respect and it’s what you’ll get back.

Bibliography:

Bytheway, B. (1995). Ageism. Buckingham: Open University Press

Ageism: Concepts and Theories. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.lco-cdo.org/en/older-adults-lco-funded-papers-charmaine-spencer-sectionII

Legacy of Dr. Robert N. Butler. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://aging.columbia.edu/about-columbia-aging-center/legacy-dr-robert-n-butler

Nelson, T. (2002). Doddering but Dear: Process, Content, and Function in Stereotyping of Older Persons. In Ageism: Stereotyping and Prejudice Against Older Persons (p. 5). Cambridge, Mass.: MIT Press.

Retirement. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://flash.lakeheadu.ca/~mstones/retirement.html

The History of Ageism

Introduction to Ageism

Ageism.

The discrimination based on one’s age. However, Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary defines ageism as, “unfair treatment of old people.”

Now, why is it that our minds immediately jump to the elderly when we bring up ageism? Please, don’t get me wrong, the elderly are a major target for age discrimination, but they are not the only ones. Teenagers are targeted as well.

With phrases like, “You don’t know anything, you’re just a kid.”

Seriously? Hey look, I’m a teenager, I must not know anything because I go to school and learn new things every day! Do you want to graph my absolute value, sinusoidal, exponential, or reciprocal functions for me? Or write a five page research paper on the negative effects of discrimination? HA. How ironic.

Or let’s try this: “Him? Oh he’s just a boy! He’s young, he is still immature and acts on impulse.” Right, because maturity completely disregards the fact that maybe, just maybe, this ‘boy’ holds the highest grade point average in his grade and never misses a class, and focuses solely on his age. Because it’s not as if political advertisements, that aim petty jabs at their opponents, are the epitome of maturity. They’re just leading the country is all.

Oh, get this one: “Don’t you think you’re getting too old to work?” Yes because sitting at a desk and typing on my computer all day requires me to be physically sound and I should probably have the stamina of a 30 year old. Just in case I am incapable of using my fingers correctly.

My age does not define my abilities.

Now, please try to understand, I am a teenager, so this blog will be slightly biased. Sorry, not sorry.

Bibliography:

Ageism. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ageism

Law Commission of Ontario. (n.d.). II. Ageism: Concepts and Theories. Retrieved from http://www.lco-cdo.org/en/older-adults-lco-funded-papers-charmaine-spencer-sectionII

Introduction to Ageism